Episode 4

The Return of Intimacy: Wendy’s Midlife Libido Story

Published on: 13th August, 2025

In this episode of 'But My Vagina Still Works,' we welcome Wendy Smittick to share her positive experience with hormone replacement therapy (HRT). Wendy recounts her journey through perimenopause, the symptoms she faced, and how HRT transformed her life, particularly in rekindling intimacy with her husband.

We also explore the different ways menopause affects women, especially women of color, and discuss holistic approaches alongside medical treatments. Wendy's story highlights the significance of sisterhood, recognizing one's unique journey, and valuing self-worth beyond societal and relational expectations. Join us for an enlightening and candid discussion on mental well-being, lifestyle changes, and finding balance during and after menopause.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

01:42 Wendy's First Signs of Perimenopause

03:23 The Impact of Early Motherhood on Menopause

06:31 Challenges of Menopause on Intimacy

11:23 Discovering Hormone Replacement Therapy

15:17 Benefits and Misconceptions of HRT

18:01 Managing High Testosterone Levels

20:28 Drawbacks of Hormone Replacement Therapy

21:21 Exploring Holistic Solutions

23:02 The Role of Cannabis in Menopause

24:57 The Importance of Sisterhood

25:45 Personal Transformation Through Menopause

27:09 Embracing Authenticity and Self-Worth

31:59 Final Thoughts and Wisdom


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But My Vagina Still Works Podcast: Mental Wellbeing & Lifestyle Changes
Talks on Women's Health, Aging & Mindful Practices
Welcome to But My Vagina Still Works Podcast: Mental Wellbeing & Lifestyle Changes, the space where we embrace menopause, not just endure it! Hosted by Sheryce Watson, author of But My Vagina Still Works: A Unique Menopause Wellness Journal, this podcast is your go-to source for real talk, holistic menopause solutions, perimenopause support, and midlife empowerment. Each week, we’ll dive into the experiences no one warned us about, share natural remedies for menopause symptoms, and hear from everyday women navigating this journey. Whether you’re in perimenopause, post-menopause, struggling with hot flashes, or just wondering what’s ahead, this is your community. Because life doesn’t end at menopause—it gets better. Tune in and let’s redefine this transition together!

FAQ - Topics We Cover:
*What are the early signs of menopause?
*How can holistic remedies help with menopause symptoms?
*What lifestyle changes support hormone balance?
*How does menopause affect mental wellbeing?
*What are the best natural remedies for hot flashes and mood swings?
*How can mindfulness and meditation ease menopause symptoms?
*What should you know about post-menopause health and wellness?

Stay tuned as we dive deep into these topics and more!

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Sheryce Watson

Sheryce Watson is a menopause truth-teller, cannabis advocate, and the unapologetic voice behind the But My Vagina Still Works movement. A 63 year old mother, survivor, and storyteller, Sheryce brings raw honesty, deep wisdom, and plenty of humor to the often silenced experiences of perimenopause and postmenopause.

After enduring a 12-year menopause fog that nearly stole her life including suicide attempts she found healing through journaling, holistic remedies, and yes, cannabis. Her lived experience is now a lifeline for women who feel alone, confused, and unseen during the menopause transition.

Through her journal, podcast, TikTok lives, and community coaching, Sheryce helps women reclaim their sensuality, mental wellness, and power. Whether she’s talking vaginal dryness or the endocannabinoid system, she keeps it real, relatable, and radically empowering.

Welcome to a space where your symptoms are valid, your story matters, and your vagina still works.